I recently married a man with severe heart disease. He had his first heart attack at 49, second at 57, and third at 59. He has had open heart bypass surgery. He is not in good shape. He continues to smoke, not eat healthy, is overweight and mostly sedentary. Realistically, what can I expect for the future? I feel he is not honest and doesn't want me to worry. I'm afraid I may be a widow sooner, rather than later :(