Hello,
Thanks for posting your query.
I can understand your concern. Pain or burning sensation at tip of penis is usually due to prostate causes which you have been diagnosed with.
It is true that the first time you have herpes, it can cause the nerves to your bladder to become inflamed. If this happens, you will not be able to urinate and bladder does not empty properly. However this is a temporary problems and does not persist for years.
Regarding any relation between HSV1 and prostate, then various studies have not reported any relation between diseases of the prostate like prostatitis and prostate cancer and HSV 1 infection.
You seem to be having symptoms due to prostate causes and should take the prescribed medicines regularly as advised by your doctor. Other than that get sexually transmitted diseases like Chlamydia and Gonorrhea also ruled out which can cause such symptoms. Also get your blood sugar levels checked to rule out any diabetes mellitus.
Hope that this information helps and hope that you will get better soon.
Wishing you good health.
Dear Doctor, Please let me know what tests can be done for prostate infection