a pap test isn't std testing. you need to cover your bases properly with blood and urine testing for std's. odds are your partner hasn't been properly tested either. certainly discuss this, cover all the bases and go from there so that in the future when you have symptoms, you know if you have to think herpes or any other std as a possibility or not.
herpes lesions do not scab on the genital area like a scab on the knee does either. just a fyi.
So it sounds like at this point you should both consider herpes testing so then you'll know your herpes status. Request an IgG type specific blood test.
Also, when you have symptoms, it makes sense to be seen as grace said. The doctor can test to see what's going on with a swab for yeast, bacteria and herpes.
In Sept 2010 I had a normal pap smear and also tested negative for gonorrhea and chlamydia. He has never had any issues that he's mentioned. The bumps are decreasing and going away altogether and have not become scabby at all as I've read herpes do, but I'm still nervous.
you need to be seen and have a proper exam done.
have you and your partner both had full std testing, including herpes testing prior to being intimate together?
grace