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What is my risk of getting HIV and other STDs?

My girlfriend and I do not have sex. But we kiss our lips deeply and tongue involved in kissing and we do it immediately after we brush our teeth. I suck and lick her boobs and lick her body often. She had laser hair removal and her body. She was itching and her body was irritated. I knew it but I licked her body. She sometimes give me handjob and I ejaculate. We also dry hump. Three days ago while we dry hump, we were wearing pyjamas and underwear. Our pyjamas are thin and made out of a soft fabric. I saw that her pyjamas were wet as she is aroused. To be honest she is always wet when we dry hump. I was rubbing my penis through this wet area. When were dry humping and her area was wet again, I ejaculated. I was rubbing my penis on her vagina while dry humping and I ejaculated when I was top of her, rubbing her vagina in pyjamas. I stayed on top of her in same position. My pyjamas were wet but I kept sucking and licking her boobs in same position about 30 minutes. What is my risk of getting HIV and other STDs as I did these things with my girlfriend?
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The only risks for HIV are to have unprotected vaginal or anal sex or share IV needles to inject drugs. Air and saliva inactivate the virus. You have zero risk of hiv from your activities. You may want to test, both of you, just to assure negative and then relax. You hopefully aren't stopping yourself from a sex with a girlfriend because of hiv/std fears. That's when anxiety gets in the way of a normal life and you need to treat the anxiety disorder. And nothing you've done is a risk for any std as well. Humping through clothes or pajamas is no risk, hand jobs or fingering are no risk. etc.
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Thank you very much, I feel relieved. I want to ask one more question. I asked it in pregnancy communities but they did not answer. What is the risk of pregancy in this situation (ejaculated in pyjamas when I was rubbing my penis on my girlfriends vagina and I stay in the same position while I was sucking and licking her boobs like 30 minutes as I told before)? Should she got tested for pregnancy?
you can't get pregnant through clothing.
Thank you very much.
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